
Dana Destefano knows how to stand out.
Her and her boyfriend, bassist Gerald Rienton, started their rock band, The Dollparts, in a conservative Chicago suburb.
Their band name is inspired by the song of that name by Hole.
“I love the line in that song that goes ‘I wanna be the girl with the most cake’, I think that’s something every girl wants, to be perfect and have it all” Dana explained. There came a time when Dana was a junior in high school when she started freaking out about having a “Plan B” and living a safe, normal life that music doesn’t insure. But in the end, her love of music won out, and she caught the eye of a few industry people at a convention in California called IMTA.
She met her guitarist, Brian, in high school, and after helping fill in for a show, he’s been with the band ever since. Patrick, the keyboardist for Dollparts, met Dana at a Summer Music Camp, where he assisted and she taught vocals. The Dollparts went through a few drummers before finding Sean, who is both committed and talented.

I had the honor to interview Dana this weekend, so that’s what follows:
When did you first realize you loved music?
I’ve loved music since I was very young. My dad was always listening to classic rock when I was little, so it’s something I’ve grown up loving. I started playing guitar when I was eleven, and my passion to make my own music grew from there.
What are some of your most inspirational bands/role models?
Oh, there’s so many. I love the lyrics Courtney Love and Kurt Cobain write. They’ve both been a big inspiration to me. Also, I love Jenny Lewis from Rilo Kiley. Her lyrics are very honest and her voice is so pretty and nice, and I love her image and her style. I’m also inspired by Roger Waters from Pink Floyd. He knows how to put on an amazing show that you won’t see from anyone else, and every album is a story, not just a collection of songs. And I’ll mention one more. Foxy Shazam. They’re from Cincinnati. They put on a great show, too, and they aren’t afraid to try new things and grow as artists.
Did you come across a lot of challenges being taken seriously as a girl rock musician?
There haven’t been as many as I expected, but there was one that was pretty bad. I’m very much a girl. I have a pretty little girly voice, and I like to wear dresses when I play shows. Me and my band played a Halloween show, and we covered the song Astro Zombies by the Misfits. A few days after the show, I posted the video of it on Youtube, and a boy from another local band who went to my high school commented on it saying “If I wanted to heard Taylor Swift ruin one of my favorite Misfits songs, I would of just asked a homeless guy to sh*t in my ears.”, As if there’s nobody to compare my voice to besides Taylor Swift. If I were a boy, I don’t think I’d be such a an easy target for comments like that. And there have been some boys in bands who think they know more about the music industry than I do solely because I’m a girl, and I suppose there will always be boys that look at girls in bands and say “She’s hot” instead of commenting on their talent. But I’ve been lucky so far, not to get treated like that.
Explain more about the song Naperville (the Chicago suburb where the band originated), the signiciance of feeling trapped in a conformist town, and the need to escape?
I wrote that with a songwriter named Jimmy Messer. He came up with that cool little riff, and then we wrote the words together. I was in California when we wrote that.
I’ve lived in the suburbs all my life. In junior high, I had a really hard time. Every single girl shopped at Hollister and Abercrombie and they would all show up to school in, literally, the same outfit. If you didn’t have pants that say “Pink” on your butt, or a Coach purse, or play a sport, you don’t register as a person in their eyes. I was judged a lot for going against all of that superficial. I was a shy quiet girl, but I loved punk fashion. I’d wear combat boots and plaid skirts and all kinds of stuff that confused everyone else at that school. I figured I was just weird and wouldn’t fit in anywhere. I wanted to be myself, but nobody there could understand that. Counselors and teachers would try to “help” me, but there was nothing wrong with me except for that they were wrongly judging me and assuming I had problems I never had. It was a struggle but I didn’t want to be dishonest and pretend to like the things they like when I didn’t.
When I got to high school, I still had a hard time finding a group to fit in with. I started taking acting classes and going to auditions at John Casablancas when I was seventeen, and that’s when I started to figure myself out and gain confidence. I went to California later that year and saw all the different types of people and all the stuff that there is to do, and I knew that was where I wanted to be.
All the bands here in Naperville are the same. It’s not about talent, it’s a popularity contest. There’s a group of like six guys here that convince all the high school kids what’s “cool” and if you don’t fit into that, they wont even give you a chance. Outside of Naperville, people listen to the music and decide for themselves.
Other favorite things to do?
I like to model for fun. I have a few friends who are photographers and it‘s fun to get together and take pictures. I also love fashion and vintage clothes. I also like to bake cupcakes and other yummy stuff. I have a boxer dog named Ziggy Stardust that I love spending time with, but music is my life, really. We have band practice every Friday, and we’ve been playing shows more weekends than not. I love spending time with my band and playing my guitar, most of all.
Thanks Dana.
For me personally, I found this interview amazing, and inspiring.
I understand exactly where she’s coming from, music is such a haven.
It’s so safe, it never let’s you down.

To listen to Dana Destefano and The Dollparts (which I highly recommend, because their music is out of this world) like their Facebook page or follow them on Twitter for news updates.
All the best to The Dollparts, I have no doubt you will all go far,
Jill Storm
(Quick shout out to my very favorite E.T. who was a lifesaver in figuring out some pesky technical issues. She’s a saving grace)